Since turning 30 it seems that I can't get enough sex and my husband is having a hard time keeping up with me. How can I make him last in the bedroom? I am depending on my little pink friend(vibrator) too much these days, and I am a very sexually frustrated wife. Side note, infidelity is NOT an option!
Hit him in the head and tell him how darn lucky he is!
Then make him do what you say... lol
use alot of foreplay to get yourself worked up to his level before you go ahead and have full intercourse......
I take it you mean he is ejaculaing too quickly for your liking?
You need to slow the tempo down.
By that, I do not mean that he actually pumps you at a slower pace.
He should actually pump you good and hard for a while, but then pull out and insert your pink friend in his place. Design*Sponge » 2008:: Dec 23, 2008 [above: My husband and I hemmed and hawed over the paint color in our I can set up here with the laptop, or my daughter can sew while I keep an eye on her. a seriously tasty recipe for doughnut holes that would make for a i'm off to my bedroom to start packing and wrapping gifts for next http://www.designspongeonline.com/2008HOME |
Permit HIM to move the pink friend about....allowing him to still be the one controlling the tempo, but also allowing him to "soften" up.
It will also allow him easy access to your breasts, etc....and allow you to offer oral sex to him at the same time (which may be a great turn on to him).
After a while of using your pink friend, he may well want to take it's place inside your vagina.
If you can keep this "swapping" going for a while, you may be happier.
He, also, may be happier.
You can't make him last, His sexual peak ended some years ago. Get use to it. Its like GODs little trick....he peaks much earlier then we do and we peak later.
So you use that vibrator and be happy that he still wants to have sex with you.
Get him the little blue pill to go with your little pink vibe! Have you used your toy in front of him or ask him to help with the toy?That would get him turned on again too! He is a very lucky guy.Good luck.
There are books out there that give you sexual techniques to help him last longer. I don't really want to go into detail, but check out some sex books (not the trashy kind) :)
What a lucky man your husband is! Man, I wish my wife is just like you, can't get enough sex! In my case it is me who doesn't get enough sex. I just want to make love to my wife as often as I can. Watching her feeling good just really excites me! But we only have it once in a while because she's always feeling tired.
Since you don't want to cheat and you shouldn't, you should not talk to your guy friends about this because they would take advantage of the situation and persuade you to have sex with them, and stay away from men who you are attracted to because you might have the urge wanting to have sex with them and eventually, give in.
One good way to keep your husband last longer is not letting him come that soon. If you can keep your husband from coming, he would go as long as you want. We men when we came, the sexual drive is usually diminished and we have to wait for about 15 minutes or so before it slowly gets back. I noticed that I could go for a long time if I don't come that soon, but once I came, I don't have that sexual drive as high as I want it to be anymore. So, tell your husband to pull it out, take a break and kiss you or whatever whenever he has this little urge of coming, and wait until the feeling of coming had died off before he makes love to you again. Make sure he pulls it out because if he leaves it in there, which feels so good, the great sensation would gradually build up then exploded, and that would be the end of it.
I just hope that your husband knows how lucky he is, and I think that all men want a wife just like you. You are the woman!
Ask him to talk to his doctor. It's a very common problem that can be easily fixed.
VIAGRA!
**give it to him as a christmas gift
the gift that keeps on giving....lol
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