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my best friend is married to a guy who is the father of her child but she's falling in love with a guy that she went to high school with. she asked me for advice but i have no idea what to tell her. can anyone give me some ideas on what to tell her please?
Tell her it is just lust and to go home to her husband and focus her energy on him and her baby.
She's married. That means she's off the market. If she wants out of her marriage, she should end it respectfully and not be a skank to her husband.
she needs to end one relationship before she starts another is the advice I would give her..its not fair to her husband..to her child or to the new guy and it will only get complicated and be a big mess at the end if she doesn't do it right..
She should try not to speak to this guy from school. Distance herself and work on her marriage for 3 months.
If she is honestly not happy then she can move on. If her and the guy from school are meant to be together they will work out.... but in their own time - not by ending a marriage without trying. There's a child involved!
Encourage her to go through marriage counseling. if that doesn't work, it's time to move on. Life is too short to settle.
tell her to grow up and work on her marraige
Yes. Tell her to honor her marriage vows for the sake of her child and learn to love the guy she's married to. Cheating on her husband is going to ruin her marriage and give her child divorced parents. She's being really selfish. Happily Married Male for 8 Years in Love with another Woman::
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tell her that she obviously married her husband for a reason, and yes one get sidetracked some times but she obviously loves her husband and u need to tell her that this things she got is not forreal and that seeing this other guy is gonna hurt her marraige
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she either got married with someone she thought she loved or someone she loves but just got distracted for awhile...id stay with the husband, cause thats the person that dedicated his life for her and she should to
Sure, tell her just be happy with what she has...It takes a few moments of passionate to bring down a relationship. But, it takes years to rebuilt.
Do vows not mean anything these days?! She needs to distance herself from the other one, and seek counseling with her husband!!!
If I were you, it would be all too easy to be sucked into something you would wish never to be involved. Don't be a co-dependent idiot. Run!
tell your Friend it is absolutely an acceptable, its against the laws of God, and Society of human beings, if she really want to go with others, than ask her to end the relation with her husband!!
Tell her to love her husband. She's made a choice to be infatuated with this old flame. If she made a better choice, she'd be in a happy relationship with her husband.
Tell her to invest more time in her marriage or else leave her husband.
Ask her what answer will she give her daughter when her little girl asks her " Why doesn't Daddy live here with us any more " ?
Tell her you cannot give her advice and try to keep your distance from her until she finds a solution to her own problem.
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