When a guy has cheated on his wife for some time,because hes not happy or whatever,if she was to find out and he had to stop cheating,would he end up being happy with her and never cheat again?
I think it depends on the guy. There is no blanket answer to this. SOme guys would and some wouldn't.
That would be best, but I don't have a crystal ball, so I wouldn't know.
Sure, and the Easter Bunny runs marathons!
I think it depends on the issues that led to the cheating, how those issues are resolved, and the guy in question.
The guy BTW already has two strikes against him, because wife had to find out the hard way.
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Is it OK if a husband cheats on his Wife because she's fat sad but true. if a guy does that, why even give him a second chance?
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To cheat for "some time" suggests and ongoing relationship. Which would possibly mean emotional intimacy between the hubby & the other woman.
Every relationship is different, as are the dynamics and what's tolerable. I think, if it was a stupid one-time, physical thing, maybe that could slide....once. People are quite flawed, people make really crappy choices sometimes.
But to have an ongoing relationship is altogether another situation and I think all trust & respect (from both sides) would be gone.
Anyone who cheats... IN ANY CIRCUMSTANCE... (except for swingers) isn't happy with their partner. That's why they cheat and that's why MOST couples where a cheater existed, no matter how much they try to make it up, never ever recover.
Cheating is a sign of NOT being connected, NOT being fully content and happy. When you are fully connected, you don't give cheating a thought.. it is sooo far removed from your mind because cheating is a supplement for something.
Women typically cheat because they feel lonely and unappreciated and are longing for that strong emotional connection, where men typically cheat because something is lacking sexually in the marriage. What is lacking sexually can be any number of things from lack of frequency to loss of sexual appeal or lack of adventure and spontaneity. Cheating is NEVER the problem it is merely the symptom of a problem. If a man is caught cheating and is forced, or chooses to stop cheating, this does not instantly fix what drove him to cheat in the first place. So will he abstainn from future indiscretions? Maybe- but unlikely. Will he instantly be happy with his wife due to being caught or some miraculous epiphanyy? Highly unlikely!! They would both need to work together to get to the root of the problems in their marriage. I would suggest counselling.
Sorry, once a cheater always a cheater!
I am a firm believer that once a cheater, always a cheater in that relationship because the cheater knows s/he can away with it in that relationship.
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If he decided he could be happy with his wife and was willing to put his full attention to that end, if she was willing to forgive him and if they both did some serious work (counseling, etc.) on their marriage -- it might -- MIGHT -- succeed.
But that's a lot of "ifs"!
Can be... I'm happy now and I know my other half is doing what he can to be a better person. Cheating makes you a loser.
the operative word is he "HAD TO" stop cheating - not he wanted to stop cheating and work on his marriage. so the answer is no - he will still not be happy with her, because he is being guilted into fidelity, and ultimately he will leave or cheat again.
prolly not. I mean if he cheated once, then he mite, but if he was cheating for some time, then that's a def. no. Why would he keep cheatin like that if he thought that he could be happy with his wife again. He was cheatin cuz he thought he wouldn't get caught, and he was cheatin, cuz he's not happy with what he's got. Some guys make mistakes and some guys are just cheaters, and that sounds like a cheater! Archives: Revenge Guy Cheating Ex-Lovers | RevengeGuy.com::
Hey, if this guy John is fooling around on his wife with your mother-in-law The girl he was cheating with is only 19 years old and has two kids from two
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Nope, he will never be happy. And more than likely he got away with it once he will cheat again.
Here is my take. Some men only cheat once because 'of the moment'. Some men will quit cheating when it means that their marriage will end (it was about sex, not a relationship-they had no intention of ending their marriage). The rest will do it again when the opportunity presents itself.
I doubt it.
Once a cheater,always a cheater.
You can't stereotype the male species because all men are different. Some will cheat again if they're wife doesn't satisfy them anymore. Some will never cheat again if they realize what they would've lost. It all depends on the man and how much he really loves his wife.
I personally have never cheated on my ex wife nor my current gf because I believe in a thing called karma.
It depends on the couple and the cirmcumstances. This was a really broad question.
Probably not. Once a cheater, Always a cheater.
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